Cheating: A choice or mistake?

Cheating: A choice or mistake?

                                        

Nowadays, adultery/infidelity is one of the main reasons of marital disturbance in our society. In examining this issue, it is a gigantic anecdote on how a marriage couple dealt with this difficulty. Can marriage survive over infidelity? This sort of affair is usually committed by men who are tempted to a young gorgeous maiden, still on the stage of “Feeling Binata” or maybe, up to this time in love with their masculinity. On the contrary, we can deny the fact that even women were also involved in committing adultery. When conducting the surveys, why men and women cheat on their partners? We’re aware that in accordance to her says, Males want sex, satisfaction, and freedom whereas females want to be loved and respected.

I admit that I belonged to those avid fans of “HALIK” of ABS-CBN trending teleserye wherein it function as an eye-opener on how infidelity becomes the most complex issue faced by spouses on a marital relationship. Usually, when the discovery of an affair is done, the hardest part is acceptance and dealing with too many questions. Obviously, the blame on oneself is the primary response.This issue ended in a lot of pain, confusion, and emotional distress for the people that are involved in such relation. More specifically, there are times a tendency of suicidal and deprive of trusting in other people because of enormous injustice caused by adultery.

Then, when you’re engaged with this issue, there are frequently-asked questions about dishonesty; what are the chances of a couple to truly “get over” an infidelity? How are you going to discuss it with your partner when you found out that he/she cheated on you? We have different perspectives in terms of this matter and I respect whatever it is. Maybe, some choose to still fix and retained a strong relationship with their partner despite the infidelity problem. Or maybe, some consider of letting go and moving forward rather than choosing to fight the person who hurts you the most.

On my own opinion, cheating is a choice. You choose to commit the misdemeanor because it satisfies you and you find it enjoyable. Perhaps, you’re not thinking the possible consequences of your decision. The question is, why do you have to cheat? If you’re not contented and happy with your partner anymore, then let go. You don’t have to stay and make their lives woebegone. Be fair enough to give their freedom and live their life. I do believe that cheating is not happening accidentally. It’s a personal choice you make, it is your own accountability. When your partner truly loves you, they didn’t allow themselves to cheat. They cheated because they wanted to. Cheating will always be a choice, never ever be a mistake na “natukso lang o di sinasadya”.

-Written by: MGC@ Mary Grace C. Caparas

-Photo credit to: factinate.com

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